TY - BOOK AU - Young,Jeffrey E. AU - Klosko,Janet S. TI - Reinventing your life: how to break free from negative life patterns SN - 0525935843 : AV - RC455.4.S43 Y68 1993 U1 - 158/.1 20 PY - 1993///] CY - New York, N.Y., U.S.A. PB - Dutton KW - Self-defeating behavior KW - Self-management (Psychology) KW - Self Concept KW - Self-Injurious Behavior KW - prevention & control N1 - Lifetraps -- Which lifetraps do you have? -- Understanding lifetraps -- Surrender, escape, and counterattack -- How lifetraps change -- "Please don't leave me!" : the abandonment lifetrap -- "I can't trust you" : the mistrust and abuse lifetrap -- "I'll never get the love I need" : the emotional deprivation lifetrap -- "I don't fit in" : the social exclusion lifetrap -- "I can't make it on my own" : the dependence lifetrap -- "Catastrophe is about to strike" : the vulnerability lifetrap -- "I'm worthless" : the defectiveness lifetrap -- "I feel like such a failure" : the failure lifetrap -- "I always do it your way!" : The subjugation lifetrap -- "It's never quite good enough" : the unrelenting standards lifetrap -- "I can have whatever I want" : the entitlement lifetrap -- A philosophy of change UR - http://www.archive.org/details/reinventingyourl00youn UR - http://www.openlibrary.org/books/OL1730167M ER -